who we are

Just people who believe nobody should wait alone.

Break Buddy is a small foundation from Hilversum, started by people who know the waitlist first-hand. A small board, a clear mission and a lot of care.

Break Buddy started with a simple observation: thousands of people in the Netherlands wait years for gender care, and almost nobody walks with them. Suus and Ryan, our founders, decided something should stand against that. Not another institution, but something human: someone who comes to walk beside you.

That is how Stichting Break Buddy was born. The name says it: we want to break the loneliness of waiting. Buddy by buddy, match by match.

We could not tear down the waitlist. The loneliness, we could.
Two people talking at a table

what we believe

understanding counts

Really listening and being there: no handbook teaches that. Every match is built on it.

you stay in charge

With us, you decide: your name, what you share, whether a match continues. We facilitate, you decide.

care for everyone

For those waiting, and just as much for those walking along. Giving support must never come at your own expense.

the board

The people behind Break Buddy.

Suus te Braak

founder

Saw how heavy waiting alone is and decided to do something about it.

Ryan Ramharak

founder

Built along from the very first idea: waiting should be possible together.

Tijn de Jong

chair

Guards the course of the foundation and the quality of every match.

Marein Zwama

treasurer

Makes sure every donated euro ends up where it should.

Thomas Haazen

secretary

Keeps the foundation transparent, tidy and accountable.

Boris Baan

board member

Thinks along about everything buddies and waiters run into.

Laura van der Heide

board member

Connects the foundation with the community around it.

Photos and personal words from the board are coming. This page grows with the foundation.

transparent

A foundation should show its cards.

Break Buddy is a registered foundation. Our details are below, and we will share our policies and figures as soon as they exist. Questions about how we work? Ask away via the contact page.

Stichting Break Buddy

KvK 97571008

Kapittelweg 140 · Hilversum

NL08 TRIO 0321 1580 67

Care to walk along?

Break Buddy

Support for trans and non-binary people while waiting for gender-affirming care.

KvK 97571008

Kapittelweg 140 · Hilversum

NL08 TRIO 0321 1580 67

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